When I fell out with my ex partner she began to date another man about two months after we split up. I on the other hand, could not move on to other relationships as I was still in love with her. I decided that to get my ex back I would have to rekindle the friendship we had when we first started going out together.
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At that time we would talk for hours in one night and set the world to rights! Over the two years when we were together I suppose we stopped having our talks. It is true that you become complacent and stop working at the relationship. My idea was to rebuild the friendship with my ex by asking her to meet up again just as friends. It worked, and for the following two months we met every week for coffee.
She had ended her relationship with this other guy after only two weeks, because she said he just didn’t connect with her the way I had when we first met. After a further month of meetings with her I had succeeded in my attempts to get my ex back and we are now stronger together than ever. My advice to anyone who is trying to get back with a ex partner is to remember the feelings that you had at the start of the relationship and what drew you to that person and try to rekindle them.
We become blase and lazy when we take something for granted and only realise too late that we should have tried harder and that relationships are just like any other aspects of our lives that require maintenance and upkeep. When trying to get my ex back I swore that I would work at being a better person in our relationship and not to take my ex for granted. I am happy to say that we have now been back together for 6 months and things have never been better.
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